Welcome to our web site!  Hopefully this page will be informative, interesting and
perhaps shed a little light on what it is that we do.  If you are looking for a label?
We are a non-monogamous, primary partnered, married couple – with mutually
agreed upon relationship parameters. While that is a mouthful, it’s easier
to say we have a loving and open relationship. It is our goal to seek out
and gain self-knowledge and understanding.  It is also our desire to share
what we know and what we do with whoever requests it.  We feel that Kink
is one of many ways to connect powerfully with each other, to share
communication and intimacy, and is a healthy avenue of desire.

What does all this mean?  Simply put – We love each other and intend
on spending the rest of our lives together.  We also enjoy relationships,
emotional, physical, mental, spiritual and sexual, outside of
our own.  We have agreed to certain parameters for engaging with
others in an intimate manner.
Read our Agreements

Pansexuality (sometimes referred to as omnisexuality) is a sexual
orientation characterized by a potential aesthetic attraction, romantic love
and/or sexual desire for anybody, including people who do not fit into the
gender binary of male/female implied by bisexual attraction. We prefer to
purport that Pansexuality is described as the capacity to love a person
romantically irrespective of gender.

Polyamory is the practice or lifestyle of being open to having more than
one loving, intimate relationship at a time, with the full knowledge and
consent of all partners involved. The word is often used more broadly to
refer to relationships that are not sexually exclusive. Persons who consider
themselves open to or emotionally suited for such relationships may define
themselves as polyamorous, often abbreviated to poly.

BDSM is an umbrella term for a number of related expressions of human
sexual behavior. The major sub groups are described in the abbreviation
“BDSM” itself:
Bondage & Discipline (B&D)
Domination & Submission (D&S)
Sadism & Masochism (or Sadomasochism) (S&M)
In BDSM these activities are engaged in with the mutual consent of the
participants, and typically for mutual enjoyment.

Kink is also an umbrella term which encompasses the three aspects of
creative sexual expression:
1. Power Exchange (which includes Energy Exchange and Authority
Exchange)
2. Sensation Generation
3. Fetishism

This emphasis on informed consent and safety is also known as SSC (safe,
sane and consensual), though we (and many others) prefer the term RACK
(Risk-Aware Consensual Kink), believing that it places more emphasis on
acknowledging the fact that all activities are potentially risky. There is
discussion and dispute about the meaning or intent of the terms, but in
essence, both terms refer to all participants acknowledging and accepting
some level of risk.

PanPolyBDSM ~ When these three terms are brought into the amalgam
we have an open and accepting group, where all things are possible.  Were
everyone involved can seek their bliss, without fear of judgement of their
kink.  The intent is to walk our talk when we say, “Your kink isn’t my kink,
but your kink is OK.”